Both, but there's more to learn from others.

If someone approaches Ayaka with a loaded gun, what will you do? Everyone knows the answer to that question.

How many could say the same for what you'd do if I were the one being approached?

[Maybe he would, regardless of who was approached. But hopefully her explanation still catches on. People reveal themselves in times of crisis. She had, unfortunately, revealed herself to be impulsive and childish.]